Interracial unions ?

I am a black male in college and some of my friends are in relationships with white girls and they say that white girls are more "attractive". The reason that they think that they are more attractive because of the set standard european beauty standards in America, where the white women is put on the predastle. They have been brainwashed. I think black and white couples are disguisting, holding hands with each other. I mean how could a black man once he gets money decide to marry a white women, knowing well that he is marrying a lynch rope soaked in blood? How could he offer himself to whitewomanhood at the expense of losing all of his dignity and self respect? Somebody like Clarence Tomas, who has a white wife grew up not being able to look white women in the eye and now he is married to one? How psychologically damaged do you have to be to do that?