Are all aqua men are lyk?

ok my x of a 1 week brk up is bk m happy bout tht bt nt quite! Thts cuz my aqua is manipulative nd whn i ask hm wat do u wnt out of me he says "" bt he says it in a subtle way!! He dus care cuz he keeps cmin bk nd he gives me loadsa nicknames! He says he misses me nd blah blah!! So nw i wntd 2 knw tht r all aquarian men lyk tht? Is being physical 4 thm n xpression of love wiv these men?? V hav a lng distance relationship! Hes vry sensitive ! Hes a grt persn bt he says he wants 2 b mre thn frnds! Bt hes a commitmnt phobe so cud u guys figure out the situation cuz m really confused! Nd cn i do smethn 2 make hm gt commitd 2 me? He sensitive twards smallst thng lyk lst nyt he swore at me nd he knew i din lyk it so he immediately apologisd nd tht was lyk 4 almst 10mins tht he kpt apologising ! So i cnt fig out wat ths man want dus he genuinely feel 4 me or its